If you want to get your ex girlfriend back you have to be aware of something about how women behave and that is, they are not always the most rational creatures on this earth. Very often a woman is ready to make up but it will take a thousand years before she will admit it. The ball is therefore in your court because you have to make the first move to get your ex girlfriend back.
You have to work on two basics - one is to let her know that you are still around and wouldn't mind a date and the second is to make her aware that you are a very marketable commodity.
I know my friend Michael had to face this very issue when he came to realise that the reason for the break up with Marian was very simple. He was a great film fan and they were always going to the Cineclub events and he had a lot of friends that they used to socialise with there. But Marian was really keen on restaurants and eating out and Michael realised that they had been doing the restaurants less and less over the last few months of their relationship.
Michael knew that to get his ex girlfriend back, he would have to do a quick repair and realignment job. Time for a little re-adjustment and also to show Marian that he was a lot more than films and cineclub. He played it really cool and did not even pester her with messages but waited just two weeks because he didn't want to crowd her out and he wanted to give her a bit of space.
Then he popped the question - saying that he wanted to try a new restaurant which had recently opened and as they were just friends now, would Marian mind joining him ? Marian was really keen and accepted immediately - she was still in love with him. The new restaurant was fabulous and cost a fortune but was well worth it. Marian was most impressed and saw Michael in a new light and she made it clear that she wanted to get back together again.
Michael was now in a very strong position as to how to set the ground rules for getting back together again. He could lay down a few rules - in a very gentlemanly way of course ! He said that they should eat out a lot more often but that the Cineclub and his friends were really important for him too and maybe Marian could be a bit more involved in that part of his life.
Marian agreed of course and they went on to make up. The new rules had been set so both parties were happy- Michael was astute enough to realise what the imbalance was and had the intelligence to redress the balance and lay down new rules. It worked like a dream and that was how Michael got his ex girlfriend back.
You have to work on two basics - one is to let her know that you are still around and wouldn't mind a date and the second is to make her aware that you are a very marketable commodity.
I know my friend Michael had to face this very issue when he came to realise that the reason for the break up with Marian was very simple. He was a great film fan and they were always going to the Cineclub events and he had a lot of friends that they used to socialise with there. But Marian was really keen on restaurants and eating out and Michael realised that they had been doing the restaurants less and less over the last few months of their relationship.
Michael knew that to get his ex girlfriend back, he would have to do a quick repair and realignment job. Time for a little re-adjustment and also to show Marian that he was a lot more than films and cineclub. He played it really cool and did not even pester her with messages but waited just two weeks because he didn't want to crowd her out and he wanted to give her a bit of space.
Then he popped the question - saying that he wanted to try a new restaurant which had recently opened and as they were just friends now, would Marian mind joining him ? Marian was really keen and accepted immediately - she was still in love with him. The new restaurant was fabulous and cost a fortune but was well worth it. Marian was most impressed and saw Michael in a new light and she made it clear that she wanted to get back together again.
Michael was now in a very strong position as to how to set the ground rules for getting back together again. He could lay down a few rules - in a very gentlemanly way of course ! He said that they should eat out a lot more often but that the Cineclub and his friends were really important for him too and maybe Marian could be a bit more involved in that part of his life.
Marian agreed of course and they went on to make up. The new rules had been set so both parties were happy- Michael was astute enough to realise what the imbalance was and had the intelligence to redress the balance and lay down new rules. It worked like a dream and that was how Michael got his ex girlfriend back.
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